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Post by ahasarah on Nov 9, 2007 19:20:43 GMT
And he is so right!
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Post by lawnalot on Nov 9, 2007 20:00:59 GMT
thats really the way we shud all think about it but its not!! u just keep thinking, 'no but its different cuz its us...it doesnt count'
this guy i really like (well to b honest id say we're soulmate but he doesnt no it) had a girlfriend, it crushed me when i found out...then i met her, and i loved her! she's so so so so nice, i actually told him that i wud go out with her if i was him (yes that is very very stupid)
they hav since broken up but i am so very firmly in the friend zone i cant ever see the exit
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Post by alexa on Nov 9, 2007 20:20:06 GMT
ughhhhhhhhh this is so fucking mental. i don't understand what i'm supposed to do in this stupid situation. i can't make a first move but i need to and i dont know how because ive never freaking had to before. dalksjfas;d. i'm so frustrated.
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Post by lawnalot on Nov 9, 2007 20:23:38 GMT
but this guy said he liked ur elf ears! thats clearly a very straight forward situation
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Post by mollysslightreturn on Nov 9, 2007 20:25:23 GMT
thats really the way we shud all think about it but its not!! u just keep thinking, 'no but its different cuz its us...it doesnt count' But it is different! It is goddamnit! .....it really isn't is it?
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Post by lawnalot on Nov 9, 2007 20:26:36 GMT
yes... something about them being unhappy makes it so...
just as long as u dont know/like the girlfriend
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Post by alexa on Nov 9, 2007 20:27:07 GMT
well.. you know, it really could be. my friend was dating this guy who had a girlfriend for like four months before they broke up, and they've been together for like 2 years sans cheating... and they've got a wedding date picked out... which is kind of odd, considering it's 8 years from now... but im just saying. it could be.
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Post by lawnalot on Nov 9, 2007 20:32:49 GMT
yeh, if they break up over u it wil either b becuz they weren't doing good anyway and it was an excuse or just becuz ur the one. or the one for now at least. thats very very shitty advice but im bored and i can never think of solutions to my own problems..
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Post by peacebone on Nov 10, 2007 2:28:40 GMT
so...I have this guy that won't leave me alone. This is so ridiculous, we went to highschool together, and haven't talked in ages, but every few months he'll just start iming and calling me everyday like crazy. And it's not cordial "hey how are you what's been happening?" it's "so when I'm on break I'm gonna drive up and see you in Savannah" ...I never invited you! And then he started going off on how I'm one of the only people he's consistently kept in touch with, we talk on AIM for christssake! as far as I'm concerned that doesn't really count. and he keeps asking if I'm dating anyone that he should know about so that they don't get the wrong idea. I've tried to be a bitch and brag about the guy I met on tour, but he just won't get the picture!! WHAT DO I DO!?!?!?! this isn't the first time this has happened with him, and I've outright told him how I feel *or don't feel* before. It's like that guy from Pride and Prejudice! agh!
oh...and he talks on aim like some scary juniorhigh kid...he'll do these cutesy *hides behind chair* *hugs you* *hands you beer*....here's one from me *blows my fucking brains out* JEZUS!
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Post by alexa on Nov 10, 2007 2:34:25 GMT
you should just completely ignore him. i've found that works nicely. have you tried that already?
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Post by peacebone on Nov 10, 2007 2:41:15 GMT
....oh yes...it usually works, but not on him. urgh!
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Post by alexa on Nov 10, 2007 2:44:00 GMT
damn. i hate people like that. and you've tried being very direct have you? perhaps it's time to pull a gretchen weiners... "YOU CANT SIT WITH US!" only don't say that exactly. obviously.
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Post by peacebone on Nov 10, 2007 2:50:25 GMT
I know I really should, but I hate being mean, especially over aim, I've caught myself saying things I wouldn't say in person before and I really hate myself for it. it just seems ridiculous, blowing someone off on aim (more ridiculous than trying to pick someone up on aim) I just feel like it doesn't even deserve a response because he doesn't have the balls to do it in person or even on the phone...but obviously he's not understanding that....
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Post by alexa on Nov 10, 2007 2:53:15 GMT
yeah, no i know exactly what you mean. internet drama is the lamest thing in the entire universe.
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Post by chantelcarson on Nov 10, 2007 2:53:47 GMT
I think you should try and find a hitman, or is that a little too mean?
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Post by peacebone on Nov 10, 2007 3:00:36 GMT
I think you should try and find a hitman, or is that a little too mean? yeah, I hired Caleb since he's the rockstar Terminator...but he short circuited and didn't finish the job (what a douche) so...know anyone good?
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Post by chantelcarson on Nov 10, 2007 3:04:56 GMT
I think you should try and find a hitman, or is that a little too mean? yeah, I hired Caleb since he's the rockstar Terminator...but he short circuited and didn't finish the job (what a douche) so...know anyone good? I do, I could give you his number ..... he only has two years left in prison.
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Post by peacebone on Nov 10, 2007 3:08:10 GMT
two years too long. I need this guy gone NOW! Before I get home and have to deal with him, we have the same social circle...I still don't know how that happened, nobody likes him...god I'm so mean! Did you hear about that priest stalking Conan? *I don't know why that just popped into my head, but yeah...*
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Post by chantelcarson on Nov 10, 2007 3:16:05 GMT
A priest stalking Conan O'Brien?
I really hate guys that can't take a hint, I was in a club like a month ago and a random guy came up to me and told me he could get me in bed by the end of the night... it actually lead to me running out and telling my friend to tape paper over the license plate and drive as fast as she could.
Its horrible that he won't leave you alone.
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Post by peacebone on Nov 10, 2007 3:19:22 GMT
uh SCARY! I hate guys like that! my first KOL show, this guy came up behind me and he would put his hand on my shoulder or around my waste, he hadn't even bloody introduced himself, we hadn't said a word to eachother, and he already had the nerve to grope me, it took everything in me not to knee him in the balls, I was not about to get kicked out before the kings even got on stage...urgh! men! anyway, Conan yeah, this priest was calling his parents and threatening to kill him and stuff...nice guy
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