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Post by evilincarnate on Nov 7, 2007 23:03:12 GMT
My sister started dating her current boyfriend while he was on crutches from a football (of the American sorts of course) injury.
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Post by alexa on Nov 7, 2007 23:22:26 GMT
i know lotsa girls who have dated guys with casts on... it's not that weird.
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Post by lauralimonada on Nov 8, 2007 0:38:37 GMT
my boyfriend (of 4 years) had a cast on his leg when i met him and it totally added to his charm! go for it!!!
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Post by chichi on Nov 8, 2007 15:29:21 GMT
When I was dating my husband he had a cast on his leg...didn't change anything!
You're running out of excuses, Neon!
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Post by Neon on Nov 8, 2007 19:25:21 GMT
That backfired...........
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Post by mrsjjfollowill on Nov 8, 2007 20:16:20 GMT
That backfired...........  |
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Post by Neon on Nov 8, 2007 21:00:03 GMT
whatever...........
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Post by mrsjjfollowill on Nov 8, 2007 21:01:19 GMT
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Post by Neon on Nov 8, 2007 21:01:59 GMT
ha - i could feel you waiting around waiting for someone to post
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Post by mrsjjfollowill on Nov 8, 2007 21:10:10 GMT
yup! i don't know why everyone seems to not post at the same time  but thanks for thinking of lil ol' me  |
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Post by lawnalot on Nov 8, 2007 21:48:40 GMT
haha no, i just thought it was so random... like who says something like that? i thought it was really funny actually... i didn't understand what the point of him saying it was. him trying to get out of it was funny he was like walking out of the room like "no uh you have normal ears... i like them i promise!" i just laughed. awwwww!! he so likes u, thats so cute. its not THAT weird!! im just being defensive cuz it sounds like something id come out with. sometimes u just notice cute little things like that about ppl...usually ppl u think about alot edit* i just read that, i like 'SO totally' sound 'like OMG' such tool...omg |
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Post by mollysslightreturn on Nov 8, 2007 22:56:30 GMT
Do I dare go on a date with a man who has a girlfriend? Please don't be harsh, I'm really struggling with this and need non-judgmental advice..........
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Post by peacebone on Nov 9, 2007 0:52:00 GMT
Do I dare go on a date with a man who has a girlfriend? Please don't be harsh, I'm really struggling with this and need non-judgmental advice.......... depends...does he openly admit that he has a girlfriend? are they in an open relationship? are you looking for something serious or something fun? either way he's a dog, but if you're going in knowing that it won't be hurtin no one...well...maybe the other girl... what am I on about? |
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Post by ahasarah on Nov 9, 2007 15:39:21 GMT
Do I dare go on a date with a man who has a girlfriend? Please don't be harsh, I'm really struggling with this and need non-judgmental advice.......... Is this actually a date? Or a friendly meeting which both of you are secretly thinking of as more? We'll assume for the first part that it is a proper date - As hotpeace said, if he's in an open relationship (not sure how many of those truly exist ) then it'll be fine, if you just want something casual. If not then he is not behaving well at all! But I know how it can get if he's having problems with his girlfriend and wants to break up but hasn't yet etc, it's easy to say that nothing should happen until he's single but in reality things can get out of hand. So if it's only going to be a couple of dates and then he'll be single, I'd say it's not good, but excusable, especially if you've got close already. If he's said nothing about leaving, or you think he won't, then don't do it! Not only would others get hurt but you're worth way more than that!! He should get rid of her as soon as poss if he really likes you! If it hasn't formally been described as a date then you're fine, as long as you have your own limits in your head about how far you'd go if he suddenly decided it was more than a friendly coffee or whatever. I've written an essay again, sorry! |
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Post by mollysslightreturn on Nov 9, 2007 16:08:26 GMT
^ Ha! It's ok mate, I appreciate the time it must have undoubtedly taken to write!
It's not a formal date, we both are well aware that it wouldn't be appropriate as he has a girlfriend. We've been spending more and more time together socially over the past 2 months, and he's been texting me virtually every day too.
He's been with his girlfriend for - gulp - 6 years now, and they live together, but he says neither of them are happy and they're only together cos they've got the house and blah, blah, blah. I don't want to look like an idiot, so I make sure I'm never the one chasing after him, but we just get on sooooo well. He said he wanted to spend time on his own with me more, not 'date' situations as such, but just getting to know each other better.
The realistic part of me knows that I shouldn't do anything whilst he's still with her, but then I also know I couldn't expect him to dump a partner of 6 years on the off-chance we might get on.
Just for the record, he's never tried to kiss me or do anything inappropriate, the most risque thing he's done is text me whilst pissed saying he likes me more than he should and that sort of thing. I don't think he's a total turd.
Maybe I'm just trying to convince myself of that........
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Post by ahasarah on Nov 9, 2007 16:33:26 GMT
Hmmm, this is difficult.....
It's really hard to judge where the line is I suppose. Because you're not a horrible person I'm sure and he probably isn't either. But what would his gf think? I don't know, if it's not a proper date then it's fine I guess, as long as you feel alright about it.
My friend is seeing someone at the moment who has a flat with his ex - neither live there anymore, they rent it, but I think they had to live together for a while when they broke up before they found alternatives. And they still have to sell it soon, together. So I know that can be a bit complicated!
I say, just do what feels right for you!
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Post by japanesescream on Nov 9, 2007 16:52:27 GMT
The realistic part of me knows that I shouldn't do anything whilst he's still with her, but then I also know I couldn't expect him to dump a partner of 6 years on the off-chance we might get on. He wouldn't dump her on the off-chance you guys might start dating, but if they are as unhappy as he claims, he should break up with her, regardless of your situation. so if he isn't planning on doing that then you should probably really think about if he really is over their relationship like he says ...maybe |
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Post by mollysslightreturn on Nov 9, 2007 17:53:07 GMT
^^ Yes , yes - I know you're both right and I really shouldn't do it. That's just not what I wanted to hear though.
*sulks*
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Post by Neon on Nov 9, 2007 18:10:54 GMT
A guy who cheats on his girlfriend is good enough for you? I don't think so.....
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Post by mollysslightreturn on Nov 9, 2007 18:25:50 GMT
A guy who cheats on his girlfriend is good enough for you? I don't think so..... Aahh - in all seriousness, that really touched me.  |
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