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Post by kim111 on Feb 7, 2010 14:09:48 GMT
awww callum soo sweet! thats such a lovely story i truely hope things all work out wonderfull for you two! aww that has totally brightened my day.
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Post by dusty333 on May 14, 2010 12:50:13 GMT
I havent been around HA in a while, and have posted in here for some time either. And i guess its cos ive been spending so much time with this person. Hes the guy ive spoken about on here in the past, he's all types of wrong. But when were together he makes me me very happy. It hasnt been easy, we had a glitch a xmas and then i broke things off with him in feb, but as we both have the same friends we still see one another. He likes to play games so i guess thats why we ended up getting back together as we had nearly 3 months of txts, phone calls and random make out sessions. As soon as we commit to each other again he goes cold, and i hear basically nothing from him for an entire week. I saw him out on the sat night (which he hadnt told me he was out) and he didnt even kiss me. So i said we needed to talk, he agreed. But instead of sorting things with me he hung out with his friends, im sick of being 10th in line for his attention. I broke things off two weeks ago and i know it was the best thing to do, but im finding it really hard. He's on my msn, my fb and is only a phone call away. I know il definatly see him in 2 weeks at my best friend (and the lead singer of his band) house party and i feel myself longing for that night. I feel like i just want to run away from it all
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Post by sarah/// on May 14, 2010 12:57:34 GMT
THis is gonna sound really pathetic but when I have men problems I like to watch lots of videos of my favourite men on youtube (you know who those two are haha) just because it make me realise there are nice men out there (and I guess the aren't "real life?") Maybe time out from FB and stuff would help? Then you won't feel the urge to talk to him? Although I guess if you're gonna see him in 2 weeks it might all come flooding back then :/
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Post by dusty333 on Jun 1, 2010 19:46:04 GMT
Right update after the much dreaded party. . . It was going fine but we have a very lovely and kind mutual friend, so while i was getting rather tipsy and talking to her i ended up getting emotional.Which then led to me punching him (the guy i like) in the face.Arguement insued and we got told we could borrow a car to talk privatly. We sat talking for an hour, i cried. He opened up. And told me that he loved me.THAT HE LOVES ME! What was more suprising is that i said i loved him too, it was so easy and natural. BUT. . . A few days after we still feel the same, we both love each other. We are like a ticking bomb though, its like that kind of destructive love that could ruin everything. It hurts so bad and ive opened myself up to him but if we continue we know it will end in tears. This is for the best, but now weve got to adust FULLY to friendship. ive never wanted a time machine more.
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Post by timgrw on Jun 8, 2010 22:14:46 GMT
Right update after the much dreaded party. . . It was going fine but we have a very lovely and kind mutual friend, so while i was getting rather tipsy and talking to her i ended up getting emotional.Which then led to me punching him (the guy i like) in the face.Arguement insued and we got told we could borrow a car to talk privatly. We sat talking for an hour, i cried. He opened up. And told me that he loved me.THAT HE LOVES ME! What was more suprising is that i said i loved him too, it was so easy and natural. BUT. . . A few days after we still feel the same, we both love each other. We are like a ticking bomb though, its like that kind of destructive love that could ruin everything. It hurts so bad and ive opened myself up to him but if we continue we know it will end in tears. This is for the best, but now weve got to adust FULLY to friendship. ive never wanted a time machine more. Soph two friends of mine had the exact same kind of relationship as this. They were crazy, crazy in love but killed each other at the same time. It's a real tough one and I haven't a clue what to say because I've never been in a situation like that. Hope you are okay though? I'm still with my boy and as crazy about him now as the day I met him. He moved over to the east coast (from the west) to live closer to me in February and when me lease is up in August we are getting our own place. Excited and nervous at the same time
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