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Post by kolkolkol on Nov 2, 2007 23:06:58 GMT
if you have relationship problems this is the place to post them!!!!
so i just started college and really, really like a guy called harry in my friends art class! i cant stop thinking about him and when i see him round college i go crazy, hes even made me less obsessed about kol! (and thats saying something)! my friend however is useless when it comes to finding out about him and i really want him to set us up but i think my friend fancies me because he seems jealous when i talk about harry but i really am not into him like that! i really dont know what to do i want to go out with him but he doesnt know me, and he has good taste in music ie. kol
i need help! ahhhh
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Post by Soho on Nov 2, 2007 23:24:12 GMT
hmm, all i can say is try to get to know harry yourself, without your friends help. that way you get to know harry a bit better yourself, and your mate doesent have to be the middle man. hah im shitty at stuff like this!
im in a bit of a scuffle myself, but long story short, ive been dating a guy called chris for about 2 years now but hes like 5 years older than me, my parents think were just friends, and so does everyone else, because if i told them they stop us from seeing eachother. and we dont exactly see eachother that much recently because ive moved to wales from brighton, and hes still there at uni. i dont know if i should tell them because i doubt well be able to keep it shtum for another two years, till i move back to brighton myself to uni!
haha wow im moidering
xx
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Post by mollysslightreturn on Nov 2, 2007 23:26:15 GMT
if you have relationship problems this is the place to post them!!!! so i just started college and really, really like a guy called harry in my friends art class! i cant stop thinking about him and when i see him round college i go crazy, hes even made me less obsessed about kol! (and thats saying something)! my friend however is useless when it comes to finding out about him and i really want him to set us up but i think my friend fancies me because he seems jealous when i talk about harry but i really am not into him like that! i really dont know what to do i want to go out with him but he doesnt know me, and he has good taste in music ie. kol i need help! ahhhh Sadly love, you need to take your mate out of the equation. He's gonna be as useful as tits on a fish if he fancies you himself. As for advice re: getting to know this guy better - I'm not the best person to ask. I suck at this kinda thing. I'm the sort who's really ballsy around most people, but put me in front of a guy I like and I just wanna crawl up my own arse and die.
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Post by myblackthumbnail on Nov 3, 2007 1:16:37 GMT
I haven't had a date for so long that "tits on a fish" sounds like a pleasant evening to me.
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Post by moonagedaydream on Nov 3, 2007 3:14:35 GMT
Yes, I agree you should get this guy without your friend's help. He probably does fancy you and I imagine he'd feel like shit watching you pursue his friend. I'm really bad about initiating anything with a guy I like. I always manage to establish a "just friends" relationship when it's the last thing I want. So whatever you do, make sure he knows that you like him in a romantic way--don't come right off the bat with that stuff and freak him out, but just make it known with a little flirtation. If you know he likes KOL then you need to exploit that (hehe)...maybe talk to him about the upcoming show...invite him to hang out. I don't know. I'm no love doctor. I wish you the best though!
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Post by moonagedaydream on Nov 3, 2007 3:16:40 GMT
I haven't had a date for so long that "tits on a fish" sounds like a pleasant evening to me. haha. Molly does have a way with words.
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Post by groupielove on Nov 3, 2007 3:38:32 GMT
if you have relationship problems this is the place to post them!!!! so i just started college and really, really like a guy called harry in my friends art class! i cant stop thinking about him and when i see him round college i go crazy, hes even made me less obsessed about kol! (and thats saying something)! my friend however is useless when it comes to finding out about him and i really want him to set us up but i think my friend fancies me because he seems jealous when i talk about harry but i really am not into him like that! i really dont know what to do i want to go out with him but he doesnt know me, and he has good taste in music ie. kol i need help! ahhhh honey, i fancy a guy who i think is gay!!!! ... literally..or bisexual if not gay lol ahhhhh these type of problems suckkk!! its worse when u cant stop thinking about the person.... i suggest u try to get to know him urself...and flirt with him...what do u have to lose? nothing really.... coz if that doesnt work, than it doesnt work for a reason, ie, it wasnt meant to be... wow, ive never given such whore-ish natured advice! but hey! a little flirting doesnt do anyone harm... the more time u spend with him the more u will be able to figure certain things out...
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Post by alexa on Nov 3, 2007 3:40:33 GMT
i would honestly suggest striking up a conversation and inviting him somewhere yourself. which is, i understand, a lot a lot easier said than done. but if he doesn't know you and your friend isn't going to help, than that's really your only option. do you do facebook or whatever? you could leave him a witty comment haha.
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Post by mollysslightreturn on Nov 3, 2007 18:08:09 GMT
I haven't had a date for so long that "tits on a fish" sounds like a pleasant evening to me. haha. Molly does have a way with words.
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Post by mrsjjfollowill on Nov 3, 2007 18:30:41 GMT
ok there is this boy at my school who im kinda confused about iv heard from sooo many people that he says that he likes me and he's soo sweet to me and gives me lots of compliments the thing is i don't really like him THAT much as i used to and i can't think of the reason. however i think it's coz he shows off alot in front of other girls and isn't himself when he's around them but when he's with me he's completely different. i don't really understand
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Post by mollysslightreturn on Nov 3, 2007 18:34:35 GMT
ok there is this boy at my school who im kinda confused about iv heard from sooo many people that he says that he likes me and he's soo sweet to me and gives me lots of compliments the thing is i don't really like him THAT much as i used to and i can't think of the reason. however i think it's coz he shows off alot in front of other girls and isn't himself when he's around them but when he's with me he's completely different. i don't really understand Oh Jade.......bless. Welcome to the weird and wonderful world of men. It's going to be a bumpy journey, and I'd like to say you'll come out teh other side relatively unscathed - but I'd be lying.
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Post by mrsjjfollowill on Nov 3, 2007 18:39:21 GMT
ha! thanks for welcoming me Mols but really im trying not to let it affect our friendship coz when i found out he liked me i freaked out coz i don't like him in that way i just want to find someone that i actually like ahhhhh December is just to long Jared
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Post by SozzellLovesKOL on Nov 3, 2007 20:00:16 GMT
my love life is a non-existant problem i know what ya mean Jade, if i like someone and i find out they like me or something i just freak and stop liking them. its so bloody annoying! i was hoping there would be a load of good looking guys at the college im now at. but its sooo bloody disappointing! i mean, in a college of about 5,000 students you think there would be something! i feel so lonely!
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Post by mrsjjfollowill on Nov 3, 2007 20:28:39 GMT
awww Sorrel perhaps your just waiting for Matt but it's not that i stopped liking him i just didn't really like him in THAT way ya know just as a friend but it's soooo annoying how he changes around everyone else i don't like when people are false and unfortuantly thats how i think he acts sometimes and i feel your pain dear there are only 5 boys at my sixth form
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Post by SozzellLovesKOL on Nov 3, 2007 20:37:57 GMT
i really am! im being so picky. unless someone looks like matty, i just dont like them! goshhh, i need to stop that dont worry dude, it will all work out great matie. and if not...theres always jared who is bound to fall for you!
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Post by mrsjjfollowill on Nov 3, 2007 20:52:09 GMT
im not rushing to be in a relationship coz i believe when its meant to be it's meant to be but i dunno im just confusing myself really how long have you liked Matt for? but im sure you'll find someone wonderfull too and like you said if not i mean Matt is always open for some love!
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Post by SozzellLovesKOL on Nov 3, 2007 20:56:58 GMT
im not rushing into anything either, not that i could anyways lol ive liked him ermm, not sure actually. its been on and off all the time since i first came across the kings, so 'Aha Shake..' days really. i dont know what it is. i have this weird infatuation with him. not like a freaky one though...i dont have pictures of him covering my walls or anything how long have you loooved jared?
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Post by interestingtrash on Nov 3, 2007 21:58:54 GMT
kolkolkol, i wish i could help you out, but apparently i lead guys on with my "unnecessarily friendly humor" but i would say what everyone else is saying - get to know him on your own. strike up a conversation on music. make witty banter. keep us updated!
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Post by amycakes on Nov 3, 2007 22:02:46 GMT
kolkolkol, i wish i could help you out, but apparently i lead guys on with my "unnecessarily friendly humor" i have the same problem. i was good friends with a guy i used to work with and it turns out the whole office thought we were having an affair. i got taken into the MD's office and everything. i was just being friendly
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Post by interestingtrash on Nov 3, 2007 22:16:17 GMT
kolkolkol, i wish i could help you out, but apparently i lead guys on with my "unnecessarily friendly humor" i have the same problem. i was good friends with a guy i used to work with and it turns out the whole office thought we were having an affair. i got taken into the MD's office and everything. i was just being friendly i know.. it's so ridiculous... it's not like we're sitting in their laps and whispering into their ears! just being nice! by the way, amy, how goes that horrible amount of work you needed to get done?
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