|
Post by amycakes on Dec 1, 2008 17:19:00 GMT
OMG! you need to tell him to stop texting you NOW! if anyone finds out about it, not only could you get in trouble but he could lose his job. he sounds like a douchebag if he has a wife and kids, and he's seeing a student. not the kind of person you want to get involved with. just nip it in the bud before it goes too far.
|
|
|
Post by razzthekid505 on Dec 1, 2008 17:20:54 GMT
I smoked last year
|
|
|
Post by fast3rpussycatkill on Dec 1, 2008 17:23:54 GMT
OMG! you need to tell him to stop texting you NOW! if anyone finds out about it, not only could you get in trouble but he could lose his job. he sounds like a douchebag if he has a wife and kids, and he's seeing a student. not the kind of person you want to get involved with. just nip it in the bud before it goes too far. I have told him I'm hoping if I keep ignoring him he'll jus give up. The guilt is horrible though. I would never have even thought of going out with him if I thought he had a family. I'm going to change my number as soon as I get my new phone at christmas.
|
|
|
Post by fast3rpussycatkill on Dec 1, 2008 17:33:57 GMT
18
|
|
|
Post by drippingbeards on Dec 1, 2008 17:53:16 GMT
I also fancy this girl but i shouldnt because i've just come out of a year long relationship and she's really ugly but still i fancy her little socks off......
|
|
|
Post by schnucams on Dec 1, 2008 18:18:09 GMT
The biggest confession would be that I was secretly seeing my English teacher a couple of times when we met out in discos in town during the last few months.I really like him,He's tall and handsome and only about ten years older than me but I've found out he has a wife and kids I feel so terrible! The worst part is he continues to text me and even keeps me back after class so just so he can talk me into meeting him. I don't want to see him anymore and I'm scared that if any other teachers found out I could be in serious trouble.I've told him to stop but he won't leave me alone I'm sorry but this guy is completely in the wrong and you sound a lot more mature than he is!! He has taken advantage of you!! You are not the one who has a family and wife. I would hope that if you told someone that he and not you would be in trouble. He is abusing his position as teacher and is completely wrong!!!!! I know if must be hard but please dont feel that this is your fault.
|
|
|
Post by youtometoyou on Dec 1, 2008 18:33:24 GMT
18 Aww no dont be sad! It's not your fault that he is a pig and didnt tell you that he had a wife and kids!
|
|
|
Post by Jigglytuffy™ on Dec 1, 2008 18:33:42 GMT
Confession Number 7 (I think)
I have the tendency to want to say somethings to people about some of their comments on this thread, but I know that I shouldn't, so I don't.
It's because I care and I worry too much.
Or maybe I have that complex (or whatever you wanna call it) where I feel the need to want to help everyone else while excluding or ignoring my own problems as though they aren't as important.
|
|
|
Post by razzthekid505 on Dec 1, 2008 18:37:56 GMT
The biggest confession would be that I was secretly seeing my English teacher a couple of times when we met out in discos in town during the last few months.I really like him,He's tall and handsome and only about ten years older than me but I've found out he has a wife and kids I feel so terrible! The worst part is he continues to text me and even keeps me back after class so just so he can talk me into meeting him. I don't want to see him anymore and I'm scared that if any other teachers found out I could be in serious trouble.I've told him to stop but he won't leave me alone Aww. God hunny, that guys horrible. But if a teacher were to find out, you won't be in trouble! It's not your fault. If he won't leave you alone, then that's pretty serious.
|
|
|
Post by fast3rpussycatkill on Dec 1, 2008 18:41:11 GMT
Thankyou ! I was feeling like a bit of a home wrecker. I was just so flattered when he was interested in me out of all the girls in the school that lust after him and never imagined that things would turn out the way they have.
|
|
|
Post by teikoo on Dec 1, 2008 18:43:26 GMT
Ohhh you tell that prick better to back off or there will be trouble.Happyaloners in action!! ta-da-da-da-ta-daaam
|
|
|
Post by appleshaker on Dec 1, 2008 18:45:55 GMT
The biggest confession would be that I was secretly seeing my English teacher a couple of times when we met out in discos in town during the last few months.I really like him,He's tall and handsome and only about ten years older than me but I've found out he has a wife and kids I feel so terrible! The worst part is he continues to text me and even keeps me back after class so just so he can talk me into meeting him. I don't want to see him anymore and I'm scared that if any other teachers found out I could be in serious trouble.I've told him to stop but he won't leave me alone First of all, eew. Secondly, from a male perspective, he is attracted to you and the fact that you have saw him a few times gives him a hope/fantasy that he'll keep getting to date a student. So I'd threaten to tell his wife about everything (even if you weren't going to) because before everyone jumps and says "don't do it", I know as a guy, he'll keep trying, he will not stop, until something really makes him think about the consequences, something that really hits him hard.
|
|
|
Post by Jigglytuffy™ on Dec 1, 2008 18:49:30 GMT
Can I play mother and ask why you involved yourself with a teacher to begin with? I don't really know how to say this without being somewhat harsh, but eww.
It shouldn't have happened at all...everyone is at fault here honestly. At least, you were smart enough to break it off, and if he keeps badgering you, you might not have any other choice but to notify someone of power.
I hate to come off this way, and I was biting my tongue, but it's a little disturbing...
I expect bashing to ensue, but I had to say something.
|
|
|
Post by appleshaker on Dec 1, 2008 18:53:56 GMT
I get that it's a bit "eew" but I think I can understand why, It can be hard not to be attracted to authority figures, like teachers and the sort.
Hell if I had the chance to sleep with some of my teachers i would've taken them....women appear to be less sleaze bags however.
|
|
|
Post by schnucams on Dec 1, 2008 18:56:31 GMT
^^ honestly, I dont think the why is very important here!!!
He is a teacher, he has, and is continuing to, abuse his position of power.
|
|
|
Post by Scarlettrix on Dec 1, 2008 18:56:36 GMT
It's hard not to fall for attractive teachers who aren't that much older than you, trust me.
|
|
|
Post by razzthekid505 on Dec 1, 2008 18:56:51 GMT
I think sometimes, people can be drawn in, and the matter whether someones a teacher or not becomes blind. Aa Elle (I think thats your name ) said, he is tall and handsome. Things happen.
|
|
|
Post by schnucams on Dec 1, 2008 18:56:07 GMT
^^ of course it is!!! The onus is 100% on the teacher too maintain the boundaries!!!
|
|
|
Post by razzthekid505 on Dec 1, 2008 18:58:11 GMT
^^ honestly, I dont think the why is very important here!!! He is a teacher, he has, and is continuing to, abuse his position of power. Yeah, at the end of the day, Claire is totally right.
|
|
|
Post by schnucams on Dec 1, 2008 18:59:31 GMT
^^ honestly, I dont think the why is very important here!!! He is a teacher, he has, and is continuing to, abuse his position of power. Yeah, at the end of the day, Claire is totally right. I had another post too about the onus being 100% on the teacher to maintain boundaries in student-teacher relationship but I think the post ghost ate it!!
|
|