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Post by Naboo's Miracle Wax on May 11, 2010 3:38:14 GMT
I was talking with my boyfriend the other day and i told him the first thing i notice about him was his beautiful blue eyes.... then i asked him what the first thing he noticed about me was. I was told "I don't remember"  lol, so either it's something i don't want to hear or he really doesn't remember. So everyone what is the first thing you usually notice about the opposite sex? |
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Post by beybe on May 11, 2010 5:10:31 GMT
Nice thread. karma. For me, it's height. Any guy under 5'8 is unattractive, even if the face is an Adonis. I'm very sensitive with height proportions in couples, so I would be very uncomfortable with any guy shorter than me or even of my height (heels are nice, and I ain't givin it up for insecure shortie). A guy can be unattractive, but if he's six feet or up, he's almost irresistable. I'm 5'8 btw, so I'm not that easy to tower over. Here's looking at you Shaq!  |
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Post by jeffica on May 11, 2010 5:41:57 GMT
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Post by autobusas on May 11, 2010 8:55:04 GMT
Hair! The more the better.
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Post by andyinawickerchair on May 11, 2010 9:20:58 GMT
if they have dimples, their eyes and their hair. oh, and if they have their shirt off, if they have a V |
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Post by Nee on May 11, 2010 13:57:46 GMT
Hair, and face. Then the body. But, so long as the face is nice to look at, the body isn't all too important. I think I noticed my boyfriend's hair first, but I don't really remember, and to be honest, I wasn't really attracted to him right away (not to say he isn't handsome, I just had another guy on my mind at the time, and I was a bit put off by our age difference- sorry, I'm rambling now).
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Post by autobusas on May 11, 2010 14:06:03 GMT
if they have dimples, their eyes and their hair. oh, and if they have their shirt off, if they have a V Dimples! How could I forget that? I love when people have dimples  |
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Post by Nee on May 11, 2010 14:27:00 GMT
if they have dimples, their eyes and their hair. oh, and if they have their shirt off, if they have a V Dimples! How could I forget that? I love when people have dimples Or like, just one dimple. |
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Post by bah-dah on May 11, 2010 14:46:07 GMT
Shoes I thought I was the only one!! |
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Post by NikLovesLeb on May 11, 2010 14:50:20 GMT
Size and hands.
They should not be too big, and must be lean (no pudding under the skin for me, thanks).
I prefer big hands, but as long as they dont bite their nails, I am okay.
I dont care about hair, what so ever, and never even notice it.
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Post by no1kolfan on May 11, 2010 17:14:27 GMT
for me I think it's a tie between eyes and smile/lips
then later......their hands. hahaha
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Post by GirlAnachronism on May 11, 2010 17:45:39 GMT
Eyes usually. But long hair attracts me too. Then smile.
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Post by Naboo's Miracle Wax on May 11, 2010 17:49:59 GMT
^^^^ your avatar is beautiful Me and my boyfriend were going out for about a year and i asked him on the phone, "do you know what color my eyes are?" I have brown eyes He said "blue" I was so upset but now 2 years later i have forgivin him. He's not good with those kind of things. Plus i have something to hold against him should i need to  |
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Post by Nee on May 11, 2010 17:59:18 GMT
I was thinking about this, and maybe it depends on who it is you're looking at? The first thing I noticed about my ex was his back! He was leaning over something, and I guess I just noticed he had a nice body, him being all, extended and such.
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Post by GirlAnachronism on May 11, 2010 18:01:00 GMT
^^^^ your avatar is beautiful Me and my boyfriend were going out for about a year and i asked him on the phone, "do you know what color my eyes are?" I have brown eyes He said "blue" I was so upset but now 2 years later i have forgivin him. He's not good with those kind of things. Plus i have something to hold against him should i need to Thank you. One of my favourite Johnny movies. I like your style- waiting for your chance to use the eye thing against him! |
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Post by Savanna on May 11, 2010 21:10:46 GMT
Shoes I TRULY believe that shoes can tell you whether or not you want to know a guy. They tell you all you need to know. |
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Post by Deleted on May 11, 2010 23:00:41 GMT
I met my boyfriend online so I can't really say, haha. But I think he has gorgeous eyes and a nice smile.
I'd say those are probably the things that I'd notice first in others too.
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Post by jeffica on May 12, 2010 5:35:48 GMT
I TRULY believe that shoes can tell you whether or not you want to know a guy. They tell you all you need to know. I thought I was the only one!! Yay I'm not alone! Helps to categorise: guys who wear jandals in winter, guys who wear running shoes with jeans, guys who wear snakeskin pointy things and guys I will talk to |
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Post by Helene on May 12, 2010 7:38:30 GMT
Looks, lets face it, its what everybody sees first, then it can ruin things if the guy is a complete twat, but all this 'its the interior that counts' is bullshit, I know its very important, but its definitely not the first thing you see when meeting someone.
More specifically, I like a guy who knows how to dress and look after himself, and no I am not talking aboug going OTT like Beckham
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Post by Erin on May 12, 2010 10:45:37 GMT
For me it's a smile. And if that smile shines through in his eyes, I don't care too much what he looks like otherwise. Though I have a preferance for tall, dark & handsome, I don't really have a type; I've dated all sorts of guys, from short (well, 5'8".. ) to a lot taller, bald, mohawked, dreadlocked, long haired, ginger, blonde, black haired, skinny, toned, beefed up, chubby, bearded, acné'd to various nationalities too. But they all had a killer smile in common. |
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